Identity Crisis – How can we help them?

Identity crisis is not common nowadays, but knowing their situation would help them grow as normal person again. This kind of identity was started long ago, i don’t know when its started but i’m sure that since before Christ its all started. Any where and everywhere this is a person who is having this kind of problem, and some will just admitted themselves that this is their fate in life. But guess what, God made only man and woman, not gays, bisexual, transexual, and lesbians. I don’t want to degrade or to persecute their existence but i know, that is a way to change their lives into normal person. Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transexuals are come from all forms, shape, and looks. Some of them started since childhood and some started when they just a grown man or woman and some just indulge with curiousity and or maybe just got rape. I cannot blame them of being what they are right now, but i can help them in order to change and will view their lives in a right path of life. How? Here is some of ways that how will you help them change as normal person again.

  • Never ever give them a punishment or ways that could hurt them, this will just increase their mentally of continuing those wrong deeds from the past.
  • Make them happy by showing them how you love them and share the wisdom and word of God to them in order to enlighten their minds.
  • Give them respect, this will soften their heart and so they will respect you and they will learn to love you back.
  • Start to change them slowly by means of the way they look or they dress or even the way they act.
  • Never lose hope of showing in to them that you love them.
  • Maintain day to day conversion.
  • Make some activities like sports in order for them to interact with people.
  • Protect them from people who makes fun of them or hurting them.
  • And lasty, make them feel special to you.

 I hope these things would help you if you have a friend, classmate, bestfriend, brother and sister who are having identity crisis. God bless and have a nice day.🙂

11 Responses so far »

  1. 1

    Vince said,

    Very well said young mam, very well said…

  2. 2

    Vince said,

    Very well said young man, very well said…

  3. 3

    elmantheman said,

    We talk of what we know, and it hurts more.

    What are gays and homosexuals really? A man or a woman? Can we go to heaven?
    Can we get over our feelings toward same gender individuals? Can we, in a twink of an eye or in many years change from being effeminate to a fearsome guy, or manly guy, as described by those who said they are man.

    Why not ask God himself? But can you talk to God now? Perhaps, you can read his words from the Holy Bible. Perhaps if we can’t understand the Holy Bible, someone can.

    But who will believe on someone, who has no complete grasps of what the Holy Bible say?

    Well if he has a complete understanding of what is written in the Holy Bible, and he himself performs what the Holy Bible tells him to do accordingly, perhaps he has an authority to read it for us.

    Shall we?

    Visit please:

    http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/the-biblical-difference-between-a-homosexual-and-a-sodomite/

    http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2007/06/02/can-a-homosexual-make-it-to-heaven/

  4. 4

    Kay said,

    Which God are you referring to?I think there are many deities/religions that would be proud to be their creator.

    I don’t want to degrade your religious ways but you do clearly need help in understanding your fellow man.
    Acceptance and love goes much further.

  5. 5

    elmantheman said,

    Tell me what is degrading on what I said and maybe our minds can meet.

  6. 6

    nathanielsanico said,

    Dear elman,

    there is nothing degrading, but just like bro. eli said that, gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transexuals cannot be change by means of psychological change but these kind of people and you can be guided by the salvation of Christ. I may not good in this these, but they are part of this world, and they will not exist if God didn’t want them.

  7. 7

    elmantheman said,

    Do you really think that God wants homosexuals to exist? I believe no. But don’t violently react just easily. I said such because God created things and it was good:

    Genesis 1:
    31 God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.

    Man is a victim of disobedience. But if we continue to disobey God, we are now burdened by another yoke and carrying a much burden that comes from idolatry.

    Psalm 106:28
    They yoked themselves to the Baal of Peor and ate sacrifices offered to lifeless gods;

    So, from now on, as a Christian, I will do my best with the help of God, to be obedient to Him. I know now what to do, there are a lot of things to follow and Jesus Christ’s yoke is easy.

    Matthew 11:29
    Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

    Matthew 11:30
    For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

    So, if you are a homosexual, try to find an answer what, as Christians, specifically needs to follow.

    Let me just re-state my introduction above so that I won’t be misunderstood again.

    We talk of what we know, and it hurts more.

    What are gays and homosexuals really? A man or a woman? Of course we can go to heaven too.

    Can we get over our feelings toward same gender individuals? Can we, in a twink of an eye or in many years change from being effeminate to a fearsome guy, or manly guy, as described by those who said they are man.

    But there are commandments in the new testament, we should obey them as a man or a woman. Though being effiminate, the normal way you walk, the normal way you talk, those can’t be changed, because changing those is hypocrisy. Learn of what really needs to be changed by the help of God.

    Why not ask God himself? Indeed ask God through reading the Bible. But can you talk to God now? Definitely not, but you can read his words from the Holy Bible. If we can’t understand the Holy Bible, definitely someone can in this time.

    Can we just believe on someone, who has no complete grasps of what the Holy Bible say?

    Well Bro Eli Soriano has a complete understanding of what is written in the Holy Bible, and he himself performs what the Holy Bible tells him to do accordingly. So he has an authority to read it for us compared to the other leaders of different Christian denominations all over the world.

    Shall we listen now as Bro Eli reads to us?

    Visit please:

    http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2007/07/09/the-biblical-difference-between-a-homosexual-and-a-sodomite/

    http://esoriano.wordpress.com/2007/06/02/can-a-homosexual-make-it-to-heaven/

  8. 8

    nathanielsanico said,

    We all people have different views in life, but you, are part of them, do you it God make your life miserable? Every person on earth has its own role in this world, and we have to practice it by the salvation of God. Without it, we can never go to heaven, as what Jesus promised us.

  9. 9

    palee said,

    huh… so sad men.. your mum born you so patient.. you must help world!! if all people like you, the earth want cry.. god cannot purpose you, thier humanity.. think about that ok… so, i`m just give the suggestion.. thank.

  10. 10

    elmantheman said,

    Nathaniel,

    Though our life may seem difficult, even to the things that we do not know or aware of, we are being taught to be greatful to God.

    To all miserable persons out there, there is still hope even for straight, bi, or gay individuals. But remember, while there is hope better to keep on finding the truth, or it will just be to late for you when hope is gone. Time is running so fast.

    Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you.

  11. 11

    gerry said,

    you are an idiot.


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